Expressing our emotions is essential Primary Food
By Alice Moore
Did you ever consider that expressing our emotions could be just the "food" we need sometimes? That it might be nourishing?
Unexpressed or stuck emotions can be like toxins in our bodies. They need to be expressed and released!
Most of us are walking around with a belief that we need to "keep it together". We may feel sad or angry about something, but we have to get the children ready for school, help them with their homework, do the laundry, and go to our jobs. This is a challenging dilemma!
We can't just say to our boss: "Hey, I'm angry at you!" or can we?
We put our emotions aside because:
"There is no time"
"What will people think"
"My husband or friend can't handle it"
"If I started to cry, I'd never stop!"
"If I really let myself feel how angry I am, I don't know what I'd do."
I have heard myself say ALL of these things at some point.
Emotions are simply part of the Human Experience.
Emotions are there to be felt and expressed. When we suppress our emotions, this can create imbalance and manifest dis"ease" in the body. We may get a cold, a headache, feel depressed, tired, have back pain and many more physical effects. We may yell at our children, be short with someone at work or someone we love because we are really mad or concerned about something else that hasn't been expressed. We may continue to eat things we don't want to eat or overeat or not eat at all!
Here's the experiment.
Here's the practice.
Here's the invitation.
CRY. Let yourself cry. Haven't we all had a good cry? What a wonderful release. Puffy eyes, red faced! Let it out! Let the energy release. It usually feels really great after or the next day.
BE ANGRY. Call someone and tell them. Write it down. Rip it up! Punch a Pillow. SCREAM into a pillow or just SCREAM! Jump up and down. Run or walk around the block. If it feels like too much, tell someone "it feels like too much!". Just express that ANGER. You can do this without hurting yourself or anyone else.
LAUGH. Do this as much as possible! Share it with someone. Laugh until you cry! Rent funny movies. Hang out with those people who make you laugh. Call the people who make you laugh.
RELEASE. EXPRESSION. It's all FOOD!
We are like nature. Nature doesn't "keep it together". Nature is powerful and rageful-calm and peaceful. It's an endless spectrum of energy. Nature does not judge itself for having a rainy day. It just has a rainy day. Emotions are Universal!
If we let ourselves express the range of emotion that is our birthright as human beings, we will feel more authentic and life will continue to flow.
I love to watch children as my inspiration to continue to build the courage to feel my emotions.
When a child has a BIG cry over not getting the lollypop he/she may want at that very moment, the child usually fully feels the deep disappointment and sadness FULLY (usually loudly!) and then moves on!
Children do not judge their expression of emotion. They simply express it.
As we practice feeling our feelings, we become more present in the world.
We can enjoy the joyful and peaceful moments even more fully as we clear through the feelings that we think are negative or ‘bad'.
We may also experience MORE joyful moments if the bottled up ones are set free.
As we continue to eat Whole Foods our emotions want to come out. Our bodies are not clogged up with foods that suppress our emotions like processed, packaged and chemicalized foods.
Use the support of your counselors, your friends and your community to be the most human self you can be and let us know how it's going.
Expressing our emotions may be just the food we were looking for.
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